Let go of people who are not willing to love you

[From Anthony Hopkins]
Let go of people who are not willing to love you!
It’s the hardest thing you’ll ever have to do in your life, and it’ll also be the most important thing: stop giving your love to those who aren’t ready to love you.
Stop having hard conversations with people who don’t want to change.
Stop popping up for people who are indifferent to your presence.
Stop loving people who are not willing to love you.
I know your instinct is to do everything to earn the good graces of everyone around you, but it’s also the impulse that will steal your time, energy and mental, physical and spiritual health…
When you begin to manifest yourself in your life, completely, with joy, interest and commitment, not everyone will be ready to find you in this place of pure sincerity…
Doesn’t mean you have to change who you are.
That means you have to stop loving people who aren’t ready to love you.

If you’re excluded, subtlely insulted, forgotten or easily ignored by the people you offer your time to, you’re not doing yourself a favour by continuing to offer them your energy and energy life. life.

Truth is, you’re not everyone…
And not everyone is for you…
This is what makes this world so special when you find the few people you have a genuine friendship, love or relationship with…
You’ll know how precious this is…
Because you’ve experienced what’s not…
But the more time you spend trying to make yourself love someone who can’t…
The more time you waste depriving yourself of that same connection…
There are billions of people on this planet, and many of them will end up with you, at their level, with their vibes, from where they are…
But…

The smaller you stay, involved in the privacy of people who use you as a pillow, a second-class option, a therapist and a strategist for their emotional healing… The more time you stay out of the community you desire.

Maybe if you stop popping up, you’ll be less wanted…
Maybe if you stop trying, the relationship will stop…
Maybe if you stop texting your phone will stay dark for days and weeks…
Maybe if you stop loving someone, the love between you will dissolve…
Doesn’t mean you ruined a relationship!
That means the only thing that held that relationship was the energy YOU and YOU alone engaged in keeping it afloat.
It’s not love.
That’s attachment.
It’s trying to give a chance to someone who doesn’t want it!
The most precious and important thing you have in your life is your energy.
It’s not just your time since it’s limited…
That’s your energy!
What you give every day is what will be created more and more in your life.
It is the ones you will give your time and energy to, that will define your existence.
When you realize this, you start to understand why you’re so impatient when you spend your time with people who aren’t right for you, and in activities, places, situations that aren’t right for you.
You’ll start realizing that the most important thing you can do for your life, for yourself and for everyone you know is protecting your energy more fiercely than anything else.
Make your life a safe refuge, in which only people ′′ compatible ′′ with you are allowed.

You are not responsible for saving people.

You’re not responsible for convincing them that they need to be saved.
It’s not your job to exist for people and give them your life, little by a little, moment after moment!
Because if you feel bad, if you feel in duty, if you feel compelled, you are the root of it all because of your insistence, being afraid that they won’t give you back the favours they have granted…
It is your only fact to realize that you are the loved one of your destiny and to accept the love you think you deserve.
Decide that you deserve real friendship, genuine commitment, and complete love with healthy and prosperous people.
Then wait… just for a moment…
And look how much everything starts to change…